Irresistable

I watched Something's Got To Give--reminds me of a man I know, Jack Nicholsen does. So damn stubborn, so manly and sometimes so vunerable for the lack of words to describe what he wants to say, so afraid to say things I might not want to hear and also afraid to put his heart out there on the line.  I understand and am surprised.  How can I not love that?...love him?  He pisses me off as much as he draws me to him.  He is irresistable.